Wah! So much $ to raise a child ?

Something attracted me to this month edition of “ Young Parent” magazine – “ Got $350k? Yup, it costs that much to raise a kid!…” My first thought was… so cheap? Are you sure? On second thought, wow $350k is actually alot of money especially so if i have 2 or 3 children. That will be close to 1 million! How many of us have 1 million to spend on just children?

Good thing my hubby is an expert in the financial line and I have learnt a few things from him… I cannot agree more with the Ms. Bee Leng, head of OCBC Bank, that bulk of the cost is on the child’s education. In 5 to 21 years’ time, a four-year, non medical degree at a local university would cost almost $150,000. Don’t talk about university cost in 5 to 21 years’ time, even pre-school enrichment classes are sooo expensive nowadays. But take heart, as Bee Leng suggested, we can plan early and start saving as soon as our child is born.

Maybe my child can get a scholarship, take a bank loan or borrow from my CPF reserves. But, what if your child is just a step behind the child that was awarded the scholarship? Do you want him to give up the chance of going into university just because he does not have money? Or to take a bank loan and you will then witness him paying off the interest with his starting meagre pay? Or repaying you back into your CPF account?

If you are one of those parents who wish to plan for this education fund since it is within our means and rather not leave it to chance. Then let me suggest a few ways of saving up this fund that we would highly likely need to spend on our child (haha, I believe all of us want our child to make it to the university).

First, like what we did for our child, is to invest in an endowment insurance plan which help us to save. Every month, a few hundred dollars is deducted automatically from our bank account to save into this endowment account. Hahah, this automatic deduction made us more disciplined in our savings into this education fund.  An endowment insurance plan has a guaranteed returns and almost no risk with the minimum interest of 3%. Also, we added a waiver of payer benefit that states that in the event I die or strike with critical illnesses, the premium is waived. That is, the policy is still intact even when I discontinue the payment of premium. My child need not forfeit his chance of going into university because the parent is down with cancer. As a responsible parent, I thought I should prepare this fund for him. A gift for my precious son.

What other way some of my friends who have higher risk appetite did for their children is to invest in an investment link insurance (ILP) plan. Why I say that they have a higher risk appetite is  because investing in such a plan may not guarantee a fix rate of return. However, as most bought when the child is barely 1 year old, the time horizon for the investment to yield a reasonable rate of returns is sufficiently long and the possibility of a good return is there. In addition, this helps secure an insurance plan that covers the child as long as he lives. An ILP is very flexible, the child can choose to lower the sum assured if he reckons that the sum assured is too high (that is he cannot afford to pay the premium amount since he only start working), the child can lower the sum assured by liquidating the units. Well, there are pros and cons for each plan.

I encourage all parents and all to-be-parents to start thinking about preparing this education fund gift for your child.

Father’s Heart

Setting up a new family, particularly in Singapore, does not come cheap and easy. It is not just about throwing a grand banquet to celebrate the wedding day. Neither is it just about paying for an expensive honeymoon ticket to Europe or New Zealand. Starting a new family also means having the ability to fund for a new home purchase and having the extra financial resources to fund the living expenses of the next generations.

These expenses are understandably daunting and this is especially so for young couples who merely enter the workplace not for long and who hardly have substantial savings. This is common in Singapore, where living expenses is high.

And it would be very nice and heartwarming if the father can lend a helping hand by gifting a big “hung pao” to the child. I am sure all fathers are instinctly wired to want to provide for their children, including planning for this valuable wedding departure gift.

Motherly Love

What does your child need most when you are suddenly no longer around for him? Depending on how old he is, I believe his needs can range from emotional support to physical and financial support.

It is undeniably painful for a child at a tender age to go through the trauma of sudden loss of the mother, and to grow up in lack of emotional and physical security. This pain is often magnified when the child is also at the same time struggling to meet his basic material necessities such as daily living expenses, school fees etc.

It is good if the parents are wealthy and can leave behind a huge fortunes for the child to live on comfortably. What if they are not? The issue is most of us, including myself, belong to the middle income earner group, and we hardly have sufficient estate to see our kids through to university and beyond.

I have great news for you. There is a practical and cost-effective way you can leverage on to create an immediate legacy sufficient for your child. Something affordable and well within our means.

EduLove

There is no better way to express our love to our kids than to provide the finest education for them. A good education in a good university will give them a strong head-start in their career, so they can more easily succeed in life. If given a choice, all parents want to send their loved ones to the world’s renowned university. And it definitely warms the parents’ heart to see the children graduate with a first class degree, groomed and polished.

Many see the glorious side of the education. And many also see how exorbitant the university fees can become. But very few are prepared and actually plan for it. Depending on Singapore’s average education inflation, a local 4-year degree program can cost you as much as S$80,000 in 15-20 years’ time. And an equivalent overseas education can cost you two or even three times, depending on where you go. This is unmistakenly exorbitant.

There are many ways to pay for the university fees when the time comes. You could cough up hard cash and burn a hole in your pocket. Or you could take up an education loan at a ridiculously high interest rate. Or you could even sell off some of your precious assets to fund it. But these are definitely not the smartest ways to do it, and I will never recommend using these painful means.

Everlasting Gem

Children are our proud inheritance. And we parents naturally aim the best for our kiddies, whether is it getting them the best toys and books, funding the best education plan and preparing the best wedding gift for them, ensuring the best hospital facilities, or securing a protection value for them in the event of our demise.



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